You say ‘not all men’  But you fail to realise 

That if you have ever 

Joked about violence Laughed or remained silent 

Begged for a nude  Teased them for being a prude 

Bragged about a conquest Not stopped on request

Followed them down the road Watched as others goad

Blamed the victim  Failed to contradict him

Not had to think Before putting it in their drink

Taken a photo  Knowing they don’t know

Failed to see past The question they have asked

Accepted the culture Not challenged one another

Then you are one of them